It’s just not relative.

What time to be alive. Things change so fast, culture can swing around a hinge point and into something new so fast now. The institutions that people used to count on aren’t guaranteed to exist next year and legacies come crumbling down because of sins long buried. So many things seem fragile, and still people want to subdivide and claim truths and rights apart from those others might claim, railing against traditional values and long-held beliefs. The phrase ‘That’s your truth” has become passé from overuse, but its still a drumbeat that so many move to every single day.

IMG_3E9144B79363-1.jpegI saw an article yesterday that said the CEO of Twitter had to apologize for eating at ChickFilA during Pride month. If a chicken sandwich company can get you outed for offending people, then just about anything is possible. We walk on pins and needles, so many of us unsure about what we can or cannot say. SNL did a skit earlier in the year that hit this nail on the head.

(Warning, this is SNL, there are sensitive topics discussed here with some language, and I don’t endorse the show itself.)

As Christians we just have to understand and accept that what we have to say about Jesus, morality, sexual conduct, lifestyle choices, parenting, fiscal policy and pretty much anything else you can think of, will be at odds with the opinions of people who walk according to other, worldly standards. We will offend people. We shouldn’t seek to be offensive in our presentation, being tactful and sensitive is always good. Building relationships with people so we can have difficult conversations with them is also very important. We have to earn a degree of personal credibility with them. But we cannot apologize or be fearful because of the hope that we have in Jesus.

Listen to Paul’s letter to the church in Corinth. They were very much a divided culture, and Christians stood apart (or were supposed to, at least) from what society endorsed and expected.

18 For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. 19 For it is written,

“I will destroy the wisdom of the wise,
    and the discernment of the discerning I will thwart.”

20 Where is the one who is wise? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? 21 For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. 22 For Jews demand signs and Greeks seek wisdom, 23 but we preach Christ crucified, a stumbling block to Jews and folly to Gentiles, 24 but to those who are called, both Jews and Greeks, Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God. 25 For the foolishness of God is wiser than men, and the weakness of God is stronger than men.

26 For consider your calling, brothers: not many of you were wise according to worldly standards, not many were powerful, not many were of noble birth. 27 But God chose what is foolish in the world to shame the wise; God chose what is weak in the world to shame the strong; 28 God chose what is low and despised in the world, even things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, 29 so that no human being might boast in the presence of God. 30 And because of him you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, righteousness and sanctification and redemption, 31 so that, as it is written, “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord.”
1 Corinthians 1

Paul goes on to say that our pride must be sourced in God, and not in ourselves anyway. We trust in God for our worth, purpose, identity and voice. We reject the things of this world, and we stick with Jesus. Human beings and our institutions cannot ever serve as a replacement for what we should receive and expect from God. They will never be our voice. They will never represent us. We belong to Christ and His Church. We are children of God, residents of another kingdom. We do not share a common values system, ethical foundation or set of expectations with this world.

Even if we need to be reminded of it every day, and often we do, it is still gloriously true. We find our peace with Him. Truth is not and cannot be relative. If it could be, it would no longer be truth. We must learn to have bold, definitive conversations with people, but take them from the love of God for His wayward children. God’s truth never changes, and because we can be steady in Him, we can be steady in anything. Let’s show that peace, steadiness and faithfulness to the morally ambiguous, shifting and unsteady world around us. May His love compel us to do so.